Valuable Lessons in Life

One of the major things in life that one may or may not have realize at some point in their life, is that family is all you can have in your life that will be truly of importance to you. A family may be those people whom you share a blood-relation with or those people whom you don’t need to share the same blood in order to be considered as your family, because you treat them as something special to you. Family,  can be considered as your home and has a very special place in your life and heart. It isn’t really necessary to have a blood-relation with them.

Shiny and expensive material things don’t matter when it comes to family and love. One day, you might lose your own life and realize that those material things you possess don’t actually matter especially in the afterlife. Instead, choose to spend time wisely, do things that you have not done before, let yourself out and explore, but keep in mind the limitations too. Spend time loving not only yourself, but youre family too. If not, remember that you might regret it in the future.

Finding love is also important. And I don’t only mean the romantic-kind-of-love. Finding love can be on all aspects. Finding something that you would love to do, to spend time with, and will hold a special place in your heart. Find a something good, not something that will only hurt you. Yes, it can be from another person who you would like to spend your time with, even for a short or the longest of time whether it can be love for family, and friends. As long as you find a reason that will serve as your inspiration to live life to the fullest.

Have faith in everything you do. Especially during those times when you are facing difficult situations and you feel like giving up. But always remember not to give up. Engrave in your mind, the oldest line in the book: “Try and try until you succeed” and keep in mind, that everybody makes a mistake and that nobody is perfect. Some people might be expecting something more in you, and you might feel as If you are becoming pressured and you don’t want them to lose their trust in you. But even when you fail, remember to always stand up. Expectations are just expectations, you are who you want to be and if you can’t do it, you can try but never give up because this will help in you in facing your fears and make you stronger.

Be who you are. Don’t try to change yourself for other people. But at the same time, also be considerate of others, if there’s a reason why people are distancing themselves away from you, or you have something that may seem negative to others. Try opening up in a good way, don’t make a façade, and don’t be mean. Being who you are has a huge impact in your social life, if you feel like you don’t fit in and you feel like you are straining yourself to be someone who you are not, then stop pretending. We all have our own uniqueness. If you feel like something needs to change, then you can. Only if you know that you’re doing the right thing.

There are still a lot of valuable lessons in life. They just need to be discovered and realized. Though life may be hard sometimes, always remember these things and think of them as your light. A guide to life that will inspire you to be successful, or will inspire you to be a great person. Treat life as lemonade perhaps, sometimes it's sweet, sour or bitter.